October 3, 2009

If I Had to Live my Life Over


Here's a little some some which someone forwarded to me today. Made me happy.
Just realizing lately how FUN-FILLED and fearless life can be when you are putting first things first ... family, friends, love, faith... pink candles... etc.

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck
(written after she found out she was dying from cancer).


I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day..

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.'

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute, look at it and really see it . live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!

Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

... It's Cherish again! And I cherish you!!! Lalalalalalala life is meaningfuuuul! So hang on little spider monkey!!* (*See our new best movie "Twighlight" for the deep meaning of this phrase)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I didn't know you had a blog! And if it was supposed to be private, I'm really sorry...I really did stumble upon it through Ryan's blog. I love you.

Chala said...

lol its not private or it wouldnt be on ryans blog! hehe Don't think many people visit here I only update like once every 3 months, but I'd be honored to have u visiting once in a while!! teehee I love you pretty girl!!